Saturday 26 April 2014

How to know if a girl likes you (REQUESTED)

Here it is. This was suggested by an anonymous requester. This is directed at anyone, regardless of gender and who happens to be attracted to girls. Or maybe you're a straight girl reading this and you're just curious about what you do if you like a boy and see how many things you can relate to in this post. Does she like you back? Let's see.
DISCLAIMER: I am a girl, and I know these from past experiences.

1. She will find excuses to be close to you.



If you find her to be touching your arm, standing near you or sitting near you, chances are she might have a crush on you - being a girl, I still have no idea why we do this.
We just like being close to you.

2. She is awkward/shy around you.

Ok, let me put you in our position.

Girl: *Sees crush unexpectedly* *Thinking* OHGODOHGOD THERE THEY ARE ok just act normal.... maybe smile at them.... NO they'll think I'm strange and weird and they won't want to talk to me. I could wave as they walk past.... oh god what if they take the mick- JEEZUS THEY'RE HERE ok.... just act as you always do. Don't panic....be NORMAL.
 *Speaking* Hey! *Waves slightly* 
*Thinks* NONONONONO WHY DID I WAVE THAT WASN'T EVEN A WAVE THAT WAS AN AWKWARD FLIMSY ARM MOVEMENT WHY AM I SUCH A FAILURE TO LIFE

....yeah. Don't think we're weird. Am I the only one who used to do this?

....................maybe.

3. You might catch her staring at you.


This sounds quite weird, but guys do it too. Admit it - if you've had a crush, you haven't resisted a chance of snatching a quick look of them before turning back quickly so they don't catch you doing it.
Why do we hide it?
I don't know. We get really nervous around our crushes, no matter how good friends we and the crush are.
I don't know - you just can't help but....
look.
It's quite weird.
Guys do it too. :)

4. She'll start to like the things you like.
(Or just say she does)

If you happen to like TF2, she'll probably bring it up in a conversation and say that she's played it too. She might also ask if you can play it together at some point over steam/skype.
She should be telling the truth, but she could be lying to impress you.
THIS ISN'T WISE. Don't lie to impress someone - if they're the right person for you, they'll like you for who you are. But yeah - advice to girls: Play video games with them if they like video games.
Or sports with them if they like sports.

5. She'll laugh at A LOT of stuff you say.



Even if you aren't particularly funny, she'll laugh with you when you try to be.
I guess it's passive complimenting.

6. She'll fix her appearance around you.

She might have done her hair really nice/done her makeup really well because she knew she'd be around you that day, or you might catch her fixing her hair a lot so that she doesn't look like someone who woke up from a bed made of bushes.



If you have any other ways of telling that a girl likes you, leave it in the comments below or on Facebook. :)

Sorry I haven't posted in a while - I've been quite busy with stuff.
I have loads more ideas for blog posts and will be posting a lot more regularly so look out for those posts!

-Harriet




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