Wednesday 16 April 2014

5 things you should never say to a girl

Mkay, it doesn't matter if this is your girlfriend, crush, friend or anyone. There are just some things that you should NEVER say to a girl. Just.... no. I'll list 5 examples. Because 5 is a good number.



1. "Hey, have you lost weight?"

Okay, even if it's something good and positive, it might be over-analysed and taken the wrong way.
You should never EVER make a comment about a girl's weight.
It might scar her for life.

Because here's what goes through our heads sometimes when we hear a comment about our weight:

'Wait.... what's he trying to say....? WAS I FAT BEFORE?'

It's just us, okay?
Sometimes we over-analyse stuff.
But sometimes, if we knew we were fat before, we'll take it well and think you're a nice person.

2. "My ex used to do that too.... heh...."

(It doesn't have to be your ex - it was just an example of another girl.)
OK I CAN'T STRESS THIS ENOUGH:

DO NOT COMPARE A GIRL TO ANOTHER GIRL.

As much as guys probably don't like being compared to other guys, don't do this.
It's not worth the risk.... seriously.

3. "Is (insert name here) single?"

This is roughly equivalent to this:

Boy: *To girl* Hey. *Looks up at her face* Oh, ummmm.... not you. Ew. Uhh.... that person over there is better than you. I'll go after her instead KBYE.

This will make us feel insecure.
Or we won't care, because we don't like you back. ^.^


4. "What're you wearing?"

Don't make disparaging comments about a girl's appearance. This is similar to number one. She probably made an effort to look good that day, so don't make her think:

1. Her time was wasted.
2. She's ugly.


5. "WOW YOU LOOK FIIINE...." (over and over)

It's great to give compliments to a girl about her appearance/personality.
Until you become annoying and slightly creepy.

Our reactions will go from:
"Thank you! :D" *feels happy*
to:
"Umm, ok." *feels slightly uncomfortable*

Let's just say that if you don't say these things, then you're fine.

There are plenty of other things you should never say to a girl, but it takes common sense to see what they are.

EDIT: Not all girls are the same, therefore not all girls will act this way.

-Harriet

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